My point is that spirituality is sexist. All of the "gurus" and spiritual leaders listed here are men and typically any thought leader you hear referenced is alays a man. So, when a man tells me that solitude is needed for spirituality, I realize they have never had a baby or been a single mom. When a man tells me to wake up at dawn and meditate, it's clear they are living in a very patriarchical and free paradigm that simply isn't possible for most women.
I believe that in a "past life" I was a monk meditating in a cave in the Himalayas. So I've been there. We're all experiencing multiple realities. That's how we have empathy.